Hi from Williamsburg VA, the Colonial Capital of Virginia. Ive been following your journey on OJST and am very pleased to be reading of the control you are taking in your life... solutions that would have been unthinkable and imponderable only a decade or two earlier. For the record, I am a 68-year-old married cis male and am quite satisfied with that aspect of my life, but as a Secular Humanist, believe in happiness for all. We deserve it, no matter what kind of dangly bits the Universe stuck on us at birth. Looking forward to more contributions, and have a superb holiday.